I am Clara, a high-class courtesan. If you are up for the sex-by-the-hour services, may be I will not be the best choice for you. There are more then enough ladies for this. But only few ladies who focus exclusively on a long-term companionship.
For me, beeing a courtesan is a temporary thing, although I can not put an exact date when I want to stop. It's a very good way to learn about people - what makes them happy and sad. I have also changed my approach to wealth: I get to see wealthy people and they face the same challenges as everyone else. It makes me more philosophical. Thinking you have reached everything, you may be locked into an unhappy marriage or not able to find a woman to share your life with. It actually becomes harder to date - you don't know who's genuinely looking for love and who's looking at your money. For lots of young, successful men, wealth above a certain level can be a barrier to a good relationship.
The man I meet don't want to go for the quick hourly services. They want someone subtle, intelligent and well versed in life. They have to feel comfortable talking to you about anything, whether business or their family. Seduction is an endangered skill, and that's my favourite part of the process. I use the term "companionship" for what I do, because there is a spectrum. On one side you have straightforward sex for money, and on the other you have full-blown relationships. I see myself as being somewhere along that continuum. In this sort of relationship, each party's responsibilities are clearer. I enjoy that. Men I go out with are very intelligent people, and it is a mutually stimulating environment.
Being a courtesan isn’t something that you can do for a long time. You can meet men, who are extremely gifted and compatible with you in a variety of ways, but you still have to maintain a distance. Because when you have such a wonderful trip that you forget there is a financial motive behind it, reality can come back and heat you both. It is a continuous process of breaking down barriers, then having to rebuild them. And there are times when I feel that having to be constantly emotionally unavailable is too much for me.
No one of us knows what the future will bring to us. At the moment I enjoy a lol what I do and I want to share this beautiful moments with the person who has the similar approach and who knows what I am talking about.
Some more details about me:
Age: 35
Height: 165 / weight 56 kg
Languages: german and english
Education: university degree
Favorite drink: champagne
Favorite perfume: Gabrielle Chanel
